WHY BROTHERS DELAY GETTING MARRIED
1) FEAR (MARRIAGE PHOBIA)
Many bachelors actually fear Marriage
They fear the financial responsibilities that come with Marriage. spending on her, and then when the kids come, extra demands on him. Local man cannot can.
They fear the emotional responsibilities, tell her you love her everyday, take her out on dates, kiss her daily, be responsible and accountable to her, forgive her, it’s all too much for them to handle
While some Men fear Marriage because of the things they’ve heard or seen, maybe their father or a close friend of theirs had a bitter marriage experience
2) THEY DON’T WANT TO LOSE THEIR FREEDOM. They know they may not be able to hang out with the guys on Friday night as before. They will be expected not to go anywhere without her knowledge. They know they won’t be be able live carefreely as they were doing before as bachelors and they still value that freedom above all.
3) NO NONEY
Among this category are two types.
✔ The ones who have nothing at all to use in doing wedding, and then running a home after
Even her bride price they can’t afford with their current account balance, so they’re still single or engaged, they are currently working hard and saving money toward their marriage, with plans to quit bachelorhood soon.
✔ The ones who have money, have a good job with a good salary, even accommodation, but they want to be millionaires first, buy car, buy land and build house before they now settle down. (of course this is stupidity.)
4) THEY ARE NOT READY TO QUIT MESSING AROUND (PLAY BOYS) They are still busy sampling ladies, playing around wiyu Ada, Juliet, Zara, Shade and 20 other ladies.They don’t want Marriage to slow down or hamper their philandering.
5) STILL SEARCHING
This one’s haven’t seen the one yet.
Among them are;
👉 THOSE who honestly haven’t found the bone of their bones and are still searching,
These ones are praying and waiting to hear God.
👉 Amongst those who are praying, there are the ones that God hasn’t answered yet, and the ones that God has answered, but they are not understanding.
👉 THOSE who have seen, plenty ladies around them, but they are too picky, forgetting that nobody is perfect, physically and character wise, so they are still searching for the perfect one. We wish them luck.
6) SPIRITUAL PROBLEM
Yep, some guys are always having Issues finding and sustaining a relationship, anyone they propose to ends up leaving them no matter how nice they are to her, something must happen to scatter their relationship.
Either due to sins they COMMITTED or sins they INHERITED. These ones need to come to God, get saved and set free.
7) THE MARRIED BACHELORS (COHABITERS)
Thsese ones aren’t married, but their girlfriend/fiance lives with them, she cooks, sweeps, washes, she even gives him sex 24/7. So he sees no reason to get married, some eventually even start having kids, yet no bride price paid, and no marriage in sight for the poor lady.
When dating a Young Man, and he is delaying, find out why. So you can know what to do, to contribute, assist him with advice, wait, or find your level. Mat God help our Brothers. May they not delay themselves unnecessarily.