Marriage pattern and mentorship in celestial fold
Marriage patterns are outlooks and craved out templates that is used repititively to achieve the same results
Mentors are guides and guards that help to keep one in the right track and direction.
In the school of marriage, every intending person has a person whose marriage he admires, looks up to and models to create his own type
Sadly in celestial fold, one of the tragedy of the marriage is lack or fewness of mentors and models that represent what Christian marriage and Godly home is, rather there is an high increase in abuse and dishonor to marriage, an array of bed defilers.
We have tormentors instead of mentors, ulcers instead of advisers, infidels instead of role models, examiners instead of examples that have contributed to marriage woes in the church
The prophets, shepherds and even the elders are large contributors to the disgracing decay we often call marriage in the church
There are few good ones whom struggled to stand out among the large bandwagon of marriage defaulters in the church laying a legacy and carving a distinct pattern for others to follow.
There is a surge happening within the youth that aims to make it right in marriage, to make marriage a blessing in the fold, to keep up the standard and sanctity of the institution.
Many elders that ought to be mentors and examples, have all failed to do so, instead they have erred and spoiled the marriage institution the more.
Today it is what the youth see the elders do that they also emulate.
The streams of dishonored matrimony, destroyed marriage, polygamous unions plaguing the fold are as a result what has been patterned and seen.
The repititious patterns of marrying many wives, adulterous unions and dishonored bonds has affected what could have been a model and ideal example for many.
If the father is an abuser, and the son watches him do it, then he also will become one..
What if he marries more wives…the son will soon feel it is good too.
The nature of marriages around in the fold has affected us psychologically that we do not want to do marriage as it ought to be in Gods sight….Honourable
The fear to call a spade a spade, and the consistent calling of good evil and evil good in marriage is abundant.
An example is what others follow..and poor examples lead to poor marriages.
And it is such a pity that many are becoming wired and accepting this faultive failures as normal in the church
Marriage has been patterned in such a way that can lead many to err.
We hope and pray for reforms, reorientation and restoration in marriage patterns and mentorship in the church