MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.
(MARRIAGE EXPO FOR MEN).
Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women
favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it’s a paradox
and a social myth that must be educated.
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of
single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while
some are MISTAKES.
There is nothing wrong or bad in marrying a single mother
So if you happen to like a single mother,
investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your
If it’s deliberate because she doesn’t want to marry a
man, you can just date her and walk away;
but if it was a
MISTAKE OR TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can
ever think of.
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION
to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and
sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where
they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.
2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that
she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3. Don’t forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there’s
85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one
prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her
4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices
they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what
5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children’s
budget, see them as equals so you don’t sprout the seed of
6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem
but if the child’s father is alive, both of you should have an
agreement from the beginning on welfare and information
management. Don’t deny the father access to his child but put a
password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the
gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust
me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/
her mother happy more than the biological father.
7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that
child’s educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively
when the play together. If the father supports good, but if he does
not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of
8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less
parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents
once the are adult or even get married.
9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn’t
pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the
marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their
trust and faithfulness.
10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role
of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/
children, don’t joke with such a woman, because even if you die in
future she can take care of your family.
11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in
bed for good sex so you don’t look outside to avoid stories that
will touch the heart.
12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact
that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND
Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question
“Will You Marry Me?”… I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she
says..”Yes I will”. You won’t regret the step you have taken